Let Me Live, Sis: The Boundary Toolkit

You ever have someone “help” you so hard, it starts to feel like control?

Yeah. Us too.

That’s why we made this toolkit—for the folks who are tired of performing politeness while their boundaries get trampled.

It’s for the moments when:

• A friend starts fixing what you never said was broken
• “Advice” feels more like surveillance
• You’re gaslighting yourself just to keep the peace

What’s inside:
• A bold, printable cheat sheet of clear, loving boundary phrases—aka your “get out my business” cards
• A set of phone wallpapers with mantras that snap you back to self when your people-pleasing kicks in
• Language that keeps the connection honest without shrinking yourself to keep it

We’re not here to sugarcoat.
We’re here to say: you can be soft and say stop.
You can care and say “not right now.”
You can love people and still choose yourself.

Protect your peace. Without the panic. Without the guilt. Just the truth.